O Lord, I call upon you; hasten to me! Give ear to my voice when I call to you! Let my prayer be counted as incense before you, and the lifting up of my hands as the evening sacrifice! Set a guard, O Lord, over my mouth; keep watch over the door of my lips! Do not let my heart incline to any evil, to busy myself with wicked deeds in company with men who work iniquity, and let me not eat of their delicacies! Let a righteous man strike me—it is a kindness; let him rebuke me—it is oil for my head; let my head not refuse it. Yet my prayer is continually against their evil deeds.
Psalm 141:1-5 (ESV)A desire to listen to God comes from understanding that listening to man without God is futile.
In quietness and confidence comes our strength, not in rhetoric or argument. Man needs to learn to be quiet and value those around them who will "strike" them when they begin to falter to keep them from evil.
"For thus said the Lord GOD, the Holy One of Israel, ‘In returning and rest you shall be saved; in quietness and in trust shall be your strength.’ But you were unwilling…." Isaiah 30:15